‘Moving on’ sounds so simple at first but is
probably the hardest thing to do in the
world. It always is the first plan that everyone
has. The first idea everyone comes up with.
The only solution everyone thinks there is.
But no. You cannot just ‘move on’. It doesn’t
work like that. You have to be tortured first.
You have to cry rivers first. You have to feel
pain and get hurt first, in order to be able to
‘move on’. You have to have been dead first
in order to start a new life. You have to have
read the last chapter of the book in order to
start a new story. You have to have been
broken first in order to be put back together,
piece by piece. You cannot just move on
because someone said so. It takes weeks,
months, yes even years in order to be fully
ready to move on. So don’t feel like you have
to move on right now, right here.
Give yourself a chance to fully recovery.
Give yourself all the time you need in order
to be fully ready for what’s to come next.
Make yourself a priority first, in order to fully
commit to whatever the hell you want to.
And don’t worry, you’ll move on.
It might not be now, not in the next few months,
but eventually. Trust me.
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